So often we look at flowers in isolation, admiring their singular beauty and characteristics. Yet it is impressive to see flowers together. For instance, a mass of daisies on a bush makes quite a visual impact. Togetherness is seen in nature and is a vital part of our human existence. We all have a need of friendship through social contact with others. Even shopping or attending an event we are satisfying that need as we interact with other people.

Come with me for a moment… I am a young boy holidaying on the farm of relatives in Western Victoria. I clearly remember how I would anticipate waking up early to help with milking the cows. It was a dark cold morning as I headed down the passage to the kitchen. As I opened the door the warmth and smell of food cooking on the wood stove greeted my senses. But extra special was to see the others as they greeted me at the table. I felt so good as we ate breakfast together and another day on the farm was beginning.

Whilst we all need time alone to enjoy our own individuality, there is also the personal fulfilment which friendship brings. We can all be wary of friendship due to negative experiences, and so we isolate ourselves. We don’t want others getting too close, can we trust them? Are they genuine? Are their motives sincere?

In a Christian context we can be assured of God’s friendship toward us. The Lord Jesus calls us friends if we receive him into our lives. His friendship is not to control us or destroy our unique individuality. He is fond of us and wants a mutual relationship. Let us take a risk then, and also reach out to others in friendship.